The Most Abused Prayer

But when you pray, do not babble like the heathen, for they think that they will be heard for their many words. 

Therefore do not be like them. For your Father knows what things you have need of before you ask Him. 

Therefore pray in this manner: Our Father in heaven, hallowed be Your name. 

Your kingdom come, Your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven. 

Give us this day our daily bread. 

And forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors. 

And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from the evil one. For Yours is the kingdom and the power and the glory forever. Amen. 

"For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. 

But if you do not forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses. Mat. 6:7-15 English Majority Text.

Introduction

But when you pray, do not babble like the heathen, for they think that they will be heard for their many words.  An example of this is found in the story of Elijah.  The prophets of Baal got the sacrifice ready and called on the name of Baal from morning even until noon, saying, O Baal, hear us.1 Kings 18:26 MKJV. 

Christ warns, do not be like them.  There is no need to inform Jehovah of your needs For your Father knows what things you have need of before you ask Him. 

Prayer is not designed to inform God, but to give man a sight of his misery; to humble his heart, to excite his desire, to inflame his faith, to animate his hope, to raise his soul from earth to heaven, and to put him in mind that There is his Father, his country, and inheritance. Clarke.

Many churches repeat "The Lord's Prayer" every Sunday and consequently, the prayer becomes absolutely mundane.  Many parishioners repeat the words without paying any attention to what their lips are doing.  This must be the ultimate insult to the One who taught us that prayer. 

Among the many rules that Muslims have is this one which the Christian church would do well to learn.  When you pray be sure That the attention accompany the act, and be not suffered to wander to any other object. Clarke

Therefore pray in this manner: Christ says, Here is an example of how your prayer might sound.  That Christ did not command us to use these exact words in prayer is shown by the fact that "The Lord's Prayer" is never recorded as being prayed by anyone in the New Testament.  As far as records show Christ Himself never prayed that prayer.  This prayer is an example only and the exact words are not expected to be repeated every time we pray.

The Prayer

Heathens do not think of their God as being a Father.  To them "God" is a vengeful Being who must be appeased by sacrifices.  That same idea crept into the minds of some Jews and they also started to offer their children as sacrifices to the gods they had started worshipping.  

Our Father in heaven is a gracious, loving God who demands obedience. 

We address our prayers to Our Father, not to Jesus Christ; we pray to the Father in the Name of Christ.  Christ is our "go-between" who is sitting at The Father's right hand to plead our cause.

hallowed be Your name. When we go to prayer the first thing is not to say, "gimme, gimme, gimme".  First, we acknowledge the holiness and power of Jehovah.  Of course, there are emergency situations when proper protocol may be put aside; but our attitude in prayer must be praise to Jehovah first.

Your kingdom come, Christ did not preach the death and resurrection of Christ; He preached His coming kingdom.  According to Christ, and the writers of the New Testament, to qualify to be members of that kingdom one must live a holy lifestyle.  So, if in all earnestness, we pray for that kingdom to come, our lifestyle had better match the words we pray.

Your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven.  This is a tough one; we would like it much better if we could advise the Lord how He should answer our prayers. Our problem with that stance is that we cannot see into the future.

Now that we have laid the foundation for our prayer we come to the point where we ask for the three blessings which involve our lives.

1.  Give us this day our daily bread.  We ask for those things which we need for our physical well-being.  This is not only food but also perhaps for a job or divine guidance in choosing a new house.  Always remembering, of course, that we have prayed Your will be done or words, or thoughts, with that meaning.

2. Then, climbing the ladder of matters which are important, we pray And forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors.  This pertains to our sociological well-being; how do we get along with our neighbours?  If someone has wronged us, are we willing to forgive?  This sociological aspect to our prayers certainly includes the idea that we will not mistreat or cheat those we deal with.

Mark uses the words trespasses in place of debts.  But if you do not forgive, neither will your Father in Heaven forgive your trespasses. Mark 11:25-26.  

Please excuse a personal incident in this connection.  

I was called on to give an afternoon devotional, and, to end the devotional I prayed "The Lord's Prayer" as we have it in the Book of Matthew.  As I was saying the words, forgive us our debts immediately a woman spoke up and said, it is not debts it is trespasses.  Well, I'll give her this, at least she was listening.

3. Then we come to the highest rung on the ladder: And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from the evil one.  This relates to our spiritual well-being.  We can certainly do a lot to keep from being tempted by staying away from those places where we are tempted in our weak areas.  

Jehovah will never tempt us to sin, it is the evil one that will.   Let no one say when he is tempted, "I am tempted by God"; for God cannot be tempted by evil, nor does He Himself tempt anyone. James 1:13. 

The End

In recording The Lord's Prayer Luke ends with deliver us from the evil one.  Or, in some versions, deliver us from evil.  Luke does not include the following doxology.

For Yours is the kingdom and the power and the glory forever. Amen.  The whole of this doxology is rejected by ... the most eminent critics. ... It is variously written in several MSS., and omitted by most of the fathers, both Greek and Latin. Clarke

Then after the "amen", there is this P.S. 
The one item mentioned here which most of us would rather ignore is this.  
If you do not forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.  Why do so many of us think that we can just ignore those words of Christ, and Jehovah will forgive us our sins anyway?  Christ said it does not work that way.

What to do When ...

... You Give To Charity

"Take care not to be doing your charitable giving before men, so as to be seen by them. Otherwise, you have not a reward from your Father in heaven. 

Whenever therefore you do charitable giving, do not sound a trumpet before you as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and in the streets, so that they may be praised by men. Assuredly I say to you, they receive their reward in full. 

But when you do charitable giving, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing, 

so that your charitable giving may be in secret; and your Father, who sees in secret, will Himself reward you openly. Mat. 6:1-4 English Majority Text.

Some commentaries insist that there is a big difference between charitable giving in verse 1 and the charitable giving in verse 2.  Notice: When you do good deeds (verse 1) and When you give to the poor (verse 2). Contemporary English Version.

The reason this is important is that with this difference emphasized it becomes clear that verse one When you do good deeds, is the caption for the various righteous things that Christ will be speaking of in this "three-point" sermon.  

1. When you give to the poor do it for the poor and do not sound a trumpet.  It does not appear that any such practice was literally performed, as blowing a trumpet before them, when they gave their alms. Gill.   Sounding the trumpet was Christ's way of emphasizing the feeling that He got when He noticed how ostensibly hypocrites do give.  

They sound a trumpet in the synagogues and in the streets.  Both in church and in business locations.  How often we have all seen this:  

- In churches at the end of the pew, or at the entrance to the church library is a little, sometimes not so little, plaque with words that might say "humbly gifted by John Smith" on it.  I can assure you that they already have their reward. CEV

- men, women or businesses give huge donations to charity and so often it is done with a lot of fanfare with thousands, or more, people watching. I can assure you that they already have their reward. CEV

-  A number of years ago there was a fundraising auction sale.  The first thing to be auctioned was an imaginary loaf of bread.  The money raised by that loaf of bread was destined to feed the hungry.  This is a great purpose but the man who bid $500.00 for it made sure we all heard and saw him.  He wanted all of us to think that he was a very benevolent man.  I can assure you that he already has his reward. CEV. 

They, the hypocrites, give so that they may be praised by men.  If you do it so that you're giving to be praised by humans than that praise is all you will get.  The grammar of the ancient Greek here is emphatic. When Jesus says they have their reward, the word have can be understood as “paid in full.” Guzik.

However when you do charitable giving, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing, (this, again, is a hyperbole by Christ) so that your charitable giving may be in secret; and your Father, who sees in secret, will Himself reward you openly.

... You Pray

And whenever you pray, you shall not be like the hypocrites, because they love to pray standing in the synagogues, and on the street corners, so that they may be seen by men. Assuredly I say to you, that they receive their reward in full.
But you, whenever you pray, enter into your room, and when you have shut your door, pray to your Father who is in secret; and your Father, who sees in secret, will reward you openly.
But when you pray, do not babble like the heathen, for they think that they will be heard for their many words.
Therefore do not be like them. For your Father knows what things you have need of before you ask Him.Mat. 6:5-8 English Majority Text.

2. you shall not be like the hypocrites, because they love to pray standing:  Of course, if you're standing you are easier to see.

in the synagogues: this makes you look holy. 

on the street corners: more people will see you at the corner of the street than halfway down the block.  If being thought of as holy is what they want I can assure you that they already have their reward. CEV

Unless praying in public is part of your job description pray to your Father who is in secret.  

When you pray, do not babble like the heathen, for they think that they will be heard for their many words.  I suppose that almost all of us who attend church have heard someone "pray" and we were convinced that they prayed so long just because they loved to hear themselves talk.

... You Fast

Moreover, when you fast, do not become gloomy, like the hypocrites, for they disfigure their faces that they may appear to men to be fasting.  If you are fasting so that others will know that you are fasting Assuredly I say to you, you have received your reward in full.  

But you, when you fast, anoint your head and wash your face (look normal) so that you do not appear to men to be fasting, but to your Father in secret; and your Father, who sees in secret, will reward you. Mat. 6:16-18. 

3. The Mosaic law ... never enjoins fasting. Fausset.  Surely there are times when it is right, even necessary, to put aside the necessities of life so that we can focus on repentance and/or prayer.  These times might come many times, or maybe only a few times.  When they do come we must make sure that we do not push them aside!  However, let's not relegate those times to certain days or events; if we do, the whole effort tends to become ritualistic and meaningless. 

Rather than going without food or sleep or other pleasures for no apparent reasons we might choose to follow Jehovah's guidelines.  He says:

Nay, in the days of your fasts ye find your pleasures, and all them that are under your power ye wound.

I have not chosen such a fast, saith the Lord;
- but do thou loose every burden of iniquity, this is believed, by some, to mean (do your best to overturn any unjust court case).

- do thou untie the knots of hard bargains, If you forced someone into a business deal because you had him "over the barrel"; undo it!

- set the bruised free, Jewish law stated that if a slave owner purposely damaged a slave in certain ways that slave was to be set free.  Some slave owners did not do that.

- and cancel every unjust account.  How could you even think of "seeking God's face" if you are guilty of swindling anyone?

- Break thy bread to the hungry, share your food with the hungry.

- and lead the unsheltered poor to thy house: share the comforts of your home with the needy.

- if thou seest one naked, clothe him, buy the needy some clothing.

- and thou shalt not disregard the relations of thine own seed. Don't turn your back on your own kin even if they are hard to get along with.

Then shall thy light break forth as the morning, and thy health shall speedily spring forth: and thy righteousness shall go before thee, and the glory of God shall compass thee. Isaiah 58:3+6-8 Brenton Version.

Or, as Christ said, and your Father, who sees in secret, will reward you openly.

Thou Shalt Not Commit Adultery

"You have heard that it was said, 'You shall not commit adultery.' 

But I say to you, that whoever looks at a woman in order to lust after her has already committed adultery with her in his heart.
If your right eye causes you to stumble, pluck it out and cast it from you; for it is better for you that one of your members be lost, than for your whole body to be cast into hell.
And if your right hand causes you to stumble, cut it off and cast it from you; for it is better for you that one of your members be lost, than for your whole body to be cast into hell.
Furthermore it has been said, 'Whoever divorces his wife, let him give her a divorce certificate.'
But I say to you that whoever divorces his wife, except for a matter of sexual immorality, makes her commit adultery; and whoever marries a divorcee commits adultery. Mat. 5:27-32 

Adultery

You have heard that it was said, 'You shall not commit adultery'.  For centuries already the law has been repeated and you know it well.  But your interpretation of this law does not affect the heart.

Many and severe are the prohibitions of the Jews, concerning looking upon a woman, which they aggravate as a very great sin: they say: 

- it is not lawful to look upon a beautiful woman, though unmarried;  

- nor upon a woman's coloured garments: 

- they forbid looking on a woman's little finger, 

- and say that he that tells (counts) money to a woman, out of his hand into her's, that he may look upon her (this sounds like prostitution) ... shall not escape the damnation of hell: 

- they affirm that he that looks upon a woman's heel, his children shall not be virtuous; 

- and that a man may not go after (walk behind) a woman in the way, no, not after (behind) his wife, he must take her to the side of him, (the idea seems to be that he might see her heel, or worse yet, he might notice her waistline; so he must walk beside her so that he cannot see her);  

- they forbid a man looking on the beauty of his own wife.  

Now these things were said by them ... because they would be thought to be very chaste; when they were, as Christ calls them, an "adulterous generation" in a literal sense: they usually did what our Lord observes, "strain at a gnat, and swallow a camel". Gill.  

This means that they were extremely picky about the minutest details and at the same time miss the whole point.

So the men in such a society insist that the women wear overbearingly hot clothing all summer long just so that everyone will think of those same men, that make those rules, are above ever thinking of committing adultery.

Christ continues, So I am saying to you whoever looks at a woman in order to lust after her has already committed adultery with her in his heart.

On the other side of the globe, in North America, many women walk the city streets wearing almost nothing.  Don't they realize that a woman in a pretty dress is much more beautiful than an underdressed woman is?  But, enough of that.

Men walking the same streets will, of course, see the women, but that does not mean that they are even considering committing adultery.   The sin is not in seeing, it is in lusting; it is a matter of the heart.  Some Bible teachers explain it like this: if you would do it if you thought you could get away with it then you are already guilty of doing it.

Speaking in hyperboles, to emphasize the truth, Christ said, if you cannot look at a woman without having impure thoughts about her, gouge out your offending eye.

We, Christians, are so prone to think glibly of Jehovah's attitude towards sin.  If you do not always treat a woman in a gentlemanly manner cut off your offending hand.  If you do not do that, you might do something which will incur Jehovah's damnation.

Divorce

Christ continues, Not only that but it has been said, Whoever divorces his wife, let him give her a divorce certificate.  Under Jewish law, a man can divorce a woman for any reason or no reason. The Talmud specifically says that a man can divorce a woman because she spoiled his dinner or simply because he finds another woman more attractive, and the woman's consent to the divorce is not required. Judaism 101.

The Pharisees asked Christ Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for just any reason?  If Christ would have said "yes" there would have been a lot less friction between Him and the Pharisees.  

Instead of agreeing He said, a man ... shall be joined to his wife ... So then, they are no longer two but one flesh. This was Jehovah's original plan. But because of the hardness of your hearts, Moses permitted you to divorce your wives. Mat. 19:5-6.

Christ's standards are higher than those of the Pharisees.  He said, whoever divorces his wife, except for a matter of sexual immorality, makes her commit adultery;  Unless your wife is already guilty of sexual immorality if you divorce her you are the one that is guilty of causing her to commit adultery.

The idea seems to be that a woman should not be expected to live unmarried the rest of her life just because her husband discarded her.  The problem is that she becomes the wife of another man while her first husband is still alive.  Her first husband is responsible for her situation because he divorced her without just cause.

whoever marries a divorcee commits adultery.  Not only is the wife, who was forced to get divorced, guilty of adultery but the man who marries her is also guilty of adultery because, in Jehovah's eyes, that woman is still part of her first husband ever since the two became one.

What seems so absurd is that many people in various Christian denominations love to claim "all" the words of Christ as infallible; all, that is, except this statement by Christ whoever marries a divorcee commits adultery.  

This statement is so completely disregarded by many denominations.  Is it because the preacher does not want to lose any church members?  Is it because churches always tend to go with the flow of society, ignoring what the Bible actually teaches?  Christian churches are to be the moral leaders in any society, not the followers.

Here we are not even considering the idea of living together without being married.  If divorce and remarriage were not so easy in our society, and especially in the Christian churches, perhaps couples would try harder to be easier to get along with.    After all, living alone can't be much fun.

Even though this post is written with males in mind, if the necessary changes are made, it also applies to females.  They also cannot do whatever they may feel like doing and still remain pure!